About 30 years ago, through a program that our daughter enrolled in as a troubled teenager, we went through several group counseling sessions as her parents, to come to terms with issues we might be facing that would impact our ability to parent. In one of them, we were required to define what values we held, and to define our life’s purpose.
Here is what I defined then as my values, and reaffirm today.
I value:
- Creativity, both Divine and human. This includes Creation itself, Reverence for Life in all forms, the beauty of the natural world, art, music, literature. I recognize that fine art, music and literature are rooted in the mysteries and magic of the natural world.
- Harmony, life fitting pleasantly. Aside from the obvious musical connection, this includes cooperation, love, honesty, integrity, generosity, security, commitment, family, church, clubs, service, communication and compromise.
- Education, being a student for life. This includes an openness of heart, continual learning, exploration and adventure, which leads to growth in mind and spirit.
These make me the person I aim to be. It’s a continuing process, but I want to hang onto my values, no matter what.
The Bridge 
I love your posts, Ann. You are wise and I am grateful to have connected with you in my life. Your succinct list of values speaks volumes – I love you for this gift of wisdom!
Thank you, Lilah. I value our connections also. I recall the online meetings back in the day and my excitement to discover friends (like you) around the country! It renewed my faith in humanity. Surely we can be strong together. We need each other!